When you go through a serious breakup it’s very common to be constantly thinking every waking hour of the day:  “Can I get my ex boyfriend back?”. Everyone’s relationship and reason for breaking up are different, however there are some things you can try to help get him back.

Figure out why you broke up. You may already know the answer to this, or you may have to think on it for a while. You may also have to ask your ex for their own reasons. Let’s say that for lack of better words, your ex says you were a “nag” and he just didn’t enjoy being around you.

Be honest with yourself. Are you really a nag? Unless you have to completely fake it, try to be more pleasant around your ex. It’s important that you aren’t just pretending, because that will never last. So, if you come to the conclusion that you’re just a naggy person, then you may want to find someone who you don’t have to pretend and put on false airs around.

Ok, let’s say that you are able to act nicely and pleasant. Notice that when you project this emotion, the previous problems will seem much smaller and less significant. You may find yourself wondering why you couldn’t me more pleasant earlier on…

Tell you ex that you are grateful he is in your life, and that you are sorry you took him for granted earlier. Tell him that you can’t change the past, but going forward you are going to make an effort to make things better. Hopefully your ex will tell you that he took you for granted too at this point, but depending on the guy this won’t always happen.

Here are some more common things you may be thinking about if you are wondering “can I get my ex boyfriend back?”

Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has started dating someone else?

Honestly, this will be one of the hardest situations to overcome. Emotionally, he’s moved on from you and it will be hard for you to connect with him again. However if the new relationship is not too serious, then with the right apology you can often make this work. Also key, is to make him see what he is missing in you that he can’t get from the other girl.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back using tricks?

My advise is: don’t even try it. Chances are it will backfire on you, and when he sees you aren’t being honest your chances will be completely blown.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?

It’s possible, but it can also send the complete opposite message. He may think you’ve moved on and won’t be interested anymore. If you want to date somebody, that’s fine, but realize the consequences and don’t do it just to make him jealous. It’s not really fair to either guy anyway, and when they realize they are being played, then they will both be against you!

So, in summary - don’t try to play a lot of games to try and win your ex boyfriend back. Honesty and open communication are usually your best bets. Figure out the reason you broke up, and then try to fix the issues that caused to rift between you. Good luck!

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